Velma May “Susie” Smith entered this world on July 25, 1925.
It was the Roaring Twenties and there might have been a little extra noise on
that summer day when this remarkable lady bounced onto the stage of life. There
were seven siblings in the family of Martin and Adeline Andrews which in those
days likely wasn’t considered an unusually sized family. I don’t know a lot
about her childhood except that Susie was a fragile child and because of
problems with her spine, had back surgery at a young age. This surgical fusion
of bones resulted in a difficult posture with which she struggled for the rest
of her life. But if her body was bent, her spirit was beautifully formed.
Susie had many gifts. She excelled in art, notably painting;
she had a remarkable memory, focused on the Scripture; she had a strong worth
ethic, in a variety of jobs; and she was a comedian, at least to those of us
who knew her well.
I came to know Susie in 2011 when our family moved to
Massillon to minister to the congregation of the Massillon Wesleyan Methodist
Church. Susie had long taken up residence on the end of the third pew on the
piano side. She sat right behind me. And that is where I came to know and love
her.
She was a colorful person, and I always enjoyed talking to
her before and after church services. She wore zip-up print dresses and her
hair was always coiffed in a spray of curls on top of her head. She was
continually amused at my teen daughters’ colorful assortment of high-heeled shoes
and many Sunday mornings would ask to see “what shoes you are wearing today.”
Susie had many Bible verses committed to memory, and she
recited them every morning. Many times, during a group discussion in Wednesday
Bible study, I’ve heard her comment on a certain Scripture being highlighted,
“That’s one of my verses.” Often she would start quoting it at just the mention
of the reference.
She kept me laughing with the little quips and assessments
of life that she voiced from behind me in church. Once during Sunday School class when we were
talking about wicked King Ahab, she said in that little undertone of hers,
“That King Ahab – he was a bad egg!” She was unflaggingly kind in her support
of the pastor’s wife’s piano playing and singing, often commenting when I
returned to my seat, “That was good.” And perhaps she took that a little far.
Once when I came into church and walked down the aisle past her, I heard her
singing softly, with a little twinkle in her eye, “Here she comes. . . Miss
America!” Oh, Susie, I miss you on that plain, hard bench behind me in church!
Susie had an interesting life, though long before I knew
her. She was a real “Rosie the Riveter.” During World War 2, she worked in a
war plant which provided parts for Boeing bomber planes. She told me she
actually drove rivets into the metal; I think she said they were B-29s.
Imagine! And when we were once talking about the different jobs she had held in
her lifetime, she remarked that she first saw the carnage from the Nazi death
camps when she worked in a local drugstore where returning soldiers were
getting their pictures developed.
Susie liked painting. There are two pictures in the sanctuary
of our church which are gifts from her hand, literally: renderings of Christ
kneeling in the Garden of Gethsemane and Christ Standing at the Heart’s Door
(she told us that she was always frustrated because she wasn’t done with the
detail on the roses but the pastor at the time told her it was good enough; I
don’t think she ever quite reconciled to that! Obviously, it was still
bothering her years later every time she saw it in church.)
But though she painted with lavish color, her own life was
simple and quiet. She never traveled outside the state of Ohio. She lived
without frill, sleeping on a bed that she “got a good deal on” but that was
terribly uncomfortable from the descriptions of others who were appalled when
they saw it. She never complained. She didn’t have extravagant taste in her
cooking either. Her Sunday dinner of choice was frozen tray dinners. She and I
would often discuss which selection she was having on that day; some she liked
and had tasted before. Rarely did I hear her say she didn’t like something.
For several years until she was no longer able, Susie
operated the card ministry at MWMC. It was a delight to receive a birthday card
from the church which meant that Susie had remembered your birthday and had
taken the time to send out a greeting on the church’s behalf.
Susie was very close to her sister, Evelyn Mays. They were
confidantes and prayer partners and friends up until the end, calling one
another every day and sharing bits of life with each other. They usually spent
holidays together. Though their four brothers were gone, these sisters held
onto one another and tried their best to support their other sister, Pauline,
who had long since been in a nursing facility.
But the most remarkable thing about Susie was her
relationship with Jesus. She loved Him and talked to Him daily. He was her
Friend in her lonely times and her comfort in her hours of pain which were many
toward the end of her earthly life. Because she had been redeemed by His blood
and kept by His power down through her life, she is with Him today. We know, as
the Apostle reminds us in 2 Corinthians 5:8, that “to be absent from the body
is to be present with the Lord.” She is there now, happy and free from the pain
she suffered so long. One day, on that glorious day of Resurrection, she will
have a new body, an upright, whole one in which she can spend eternity with the
Savior she loved and the friends and family who loved her. I look forward to
seeing her there. What a great day that will be! Until then, I will hold close
in my heart all the lovely things about my sweet friend, Susie, and I don’t
think that spot on the end of the third row will ever be right without her in
it. Farewell, Susie. I’ll see you soon and we’ll laugh some more and thank
Jesus for the reality of eternity in His presence. Keep looking for me. . .
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